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Bully Kitchy Aidan..

aah..that's better :)

Aidan isn't one to show much feelings usually..Even when us parents or my in-laws goes out and leaves him in the house, he'll just waves goodbye to us and walk away to his toys nonchalently.

But yesterday evening, when li' Chloe came visiting and after the both of them played their hearts out together, he was truly desolate when her parents decided that it was time to call it a day. He had this really sad look as he saw her parents carrying her out of the door and started biting his lower lips, and his tears threatened to flow. Looks like a playmate is more important than kin to him.

The li' one has been picking up some bad traits recently. He's quite a bully now. He's taken to shoving people..even those bigger sized than him..and it's not because they'd encroach upon his personal space. He actually seems to delight in pushing them. Like yesterday with Chloe (who's abt 1/2 head taller than him), he'll go up to her and uses his palm to give her a hard push..Because she is much stronger than him, Chloe was able to balance herself..and after a few unsuccessful tries, the li' one scampered behind her gleefully and started shoving her from the back.And he was doing that with us at the side reprimanding him. And it's not coz he doesn't want to play with her. They play along fine actually but he seemed to just decide at the spur of the moment that pushing Chloe was fun. When we were in HK and he was in the play area at Times Square and Cafe Deco at the Peak, he did the same too to the kids who wanted to enter the playzone. And I think he also shoved Mongmeganmacy's Macy a few times though he didn't do it to Tracey claudiacheng's Claudia..

Am not sure how I should stop him from doing this. I remember June bbhome used to have this problem with li' Ryan too..Must ask her how she dealt with it.
Some pics of Aidan & Ryan when Rachel sonday
and we brought them to Compass Point yesterday afternoon .:)

Yellow bug..up high in...

Here's another costume I bought for Aidan in Hong Kong...Thought it was really cute although Aidan hated wearing the antenna-hairband and kept on removing it from his head. But he looked so cute running around in the bug costume...

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May. 28th, 2004 08:44 pm (UTC)
OMG that bug outfit is just the cutest!! and the video.. oh my.. i can't stop giggling!
May. 28th, 2004 08:53 pm (UTC)
heh it is really cute eh. They also have a ladybug and a spider costume but they only have that in 5 year old sizes. Only the yellow bug was in a smaller size. And it's really cheap too. Only SGD11 bucks (USD6.5) :)

Show u a pic of the spidey costume..mongmacy bought it for her daughter.
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May. 28th, 2004 08:55 pm (UTC)
Haha he's gotten be attending a lot of halloween parties at that... now that he's got so many costumes! I like aidan and ryan in the car together.. so aWWWWW the picture!! I guess they're also at an age when they begin to learn to be protective over things, and what belongs to them and all. sometimes i think though, it might be easier to coax him out of bullying than to encourage him to stand up for himself (being bullied) :X
May. 28th, 2004 09:45 pm (UTC)
heh u got something for the Aidan/Ryan 'pairing' eh :) But yeah, i like the 'car-pics' too. They look like two young urns preparing for some double-date or on the way downtown to have some fun ehhe

hmm i guess alot boils down to the character n personality of the kid. Aidan is the type that wun stand being bullied..Hmm..well, i guess i just need to reinforce to him that he sholdnt be such a big bully :P
(no subject) - sonday - May. 29th, 2004 03:58 am (UTC) - Expand
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May. 28th, 2004 09:05 pm (UTC)
that's a cute little bug there :)
about the shoving part, seems like most todd will go thru it once. It will pass, we just have to remind them constantly not to do it. Think similar to those behaviour of throwing things from highchair, biting etc.
May. 28th, 2004 09:42 pm (UTC)
yeah..i think that phase should pass too..but kinda embarrassing now to have the li' one shoving pple about. I guess Jon has stopped already.
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May. 28th, 2004 10:19 pm (UTC)
I think that aside from talking to Aidan about why it's not nice to push, Dr. Brazelton would suggest that you pair him up with another child who also likes to push. As they play and push each other, they might figure out that they don't like to be pushed and thus enforce the idea that they shouldn't push either.

Last month, I talked about how this worked for Stephen very quickly. Another little boy slapped him in the playroom and when I comforted him and talked to him about it afterwards, within a few days, he no longer hit me anymore.
May. 28th, 2004 10:28 pm (UTC)
oh..i've tried that. His cousin who's 1 year older than him shoves him back and both of them will start pushing each other ..HAPPILY! The thing is..Aidan is a li' like a 'bu dao wong'..he doesnt fall that easily and even if he does, he just picks himself up and continues whatever he's doing. *pengz* Im trying not to encourage pushing so I tend to reprimand him more.
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May. 28th, 2004 10:54 pm (UTC)
He looks so adorable in his bug costume and running like that in the video! *hahaha* His next birthday can be a themed one already! =)
May. 29th, 2004 07:22 am (UTC)
heh i was thinking of that too :) And i can lend out his other costumes to those who don't have one!
May. 29th, 2004 03:09 am (UTC)
I have yet to try that on Macy. She simply refuses to let me put the feelers too..

I try to explain to Macy each time she shoves her way in to play.. Not sure how to go about doing it too.
May. 29th, 2004 07:21 am (UTC)
I hope when they are a li' older, they dun mind the hairband :P

I guess now it's tough to teach them..hopefully, their 'pa-dao-ness' will pass. At least for Macy, u know she will definitely defend herself..which isnt a bad thing esp since she's so petite!
May. 29th, 2004 06:49 am (UTC)
heheh! Aidan is very gentle with C. :) Even my helper agrees. Lin told me they were talking at Esprit and your son kept looking at C. hahahah! It's nice to see them get along and play happily.
May. 29th, 2004 07:20 am (UTC)
heh even my mil commented that Aidan likes Claudia. They were 'talking' to each other quite alot and also playing with each other..taking turns chasing one another at Esprit. Even at teddy bear kingdom, they were interacting with each other pretty well. I guess coz Macy bochap Aidan :P..

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May. 29th, 2004 08:05 am (UTC)
Poor Aidan, Mummy bully you again! hahahahah

He does look funny running around in this house as a bug. Hoy mummy! You better hide all these pics and videos of him in weird funny costumes and having his hair tied. I think when he grows older, he really wouldnt want to see them and know that his mummy has been having fun dressing him up and having costume party with him in the costumes alone ah! hahahahahah
May. 29th, 2004 07:48 pm (UTC)
heh! Where got bully!!! :P

Next time, I'll show all his cutie li' pics to his gf/wifey and let him roll his eyes all over :D..
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May. 29th, 2004 08:17 am (UTC)
He look like one of the south park characters, in that 4th pix. The bug outfit is so cute.
May. 29th, 2004 08:26 pm (UTC)
heh sometimes, i think our kiddoes look like cartoon characters too.

Erm..aidan reminds me of la pi xiao xi more :D~
May. 29th, 2004 11:39 am (UTC)
aiyoh...... SO CUTE!!!!!

hahaha.. Aidan really look soo cute in the bug outfit! :)
May. 29th, 2004 08:29 pm (UTC)
heh..it's even cuter when u see him flitting around..in the costume. really v farnee. :P
May. 29th, 2004 03:21 pm (UTC)
Awww he looks sooo sad in the first pic :( was that taken when Cloe was leaving? poor guy but yes his nice smiley pic right after is a nice change :)

I'm sure he'll grow out of the shoving phase eventually, I don't have any helpful tips, but everyone else's suggestions sound good :)

OOh man he looks so cute running around in his lil bug costume!!! such vibrant colors!! and Megan's spider costume is really cool too!!
May. 29th, 2004 08:32 pm (UTC)
yeah that pic was taken when chloe was at the door..He'd never shown such a sad face before. Usu7ally it's either a pissed off/angry face or a cheerful face..The smiley pic was taken before this actually..when chloe was ard :P..

heh..i like Megan's spidey costume too but they dun have it in smaller size. There's a red ladybug costume also but again no size :(
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May. 30th, 2004 05:02 am (UTC)
Looks like this year's Halloween party (if there is any), Aidan will not lack of any costumes to change :P
May. 30th, 2004 07:37 am (UTC)
heh..yeah. Im asking mong to get the spider and ladybug costumes for me too. Cheap lah.only 11 bucks per piece...where to find! And so unique too.Can lend it to the other kids who don't have costumes too.
May. 30th, 2004 05:51 pm (UTC)
the bug outfit is really cute... colours v bright too...
May. 31st, 2004 09:04 am (UTC)
yeah lor..very pretty. I wanted to get a ladybug one for him initially but they dun come in his size.
May. 30th, 2004 10:37 pm (UTC)
wat a lovely 'bug'!! i definitely dont mind laying my hands on THIS bug! ;) wat a lovely glee on the second pic!
May. 31st, 2004 09:03 am (UTC)
heh this bug not very easy to 'piak'..
yeah i love his smile :) esp since it's quite 'rare'..
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