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oh baby baby~

With cabbycabcabCarie-Ann,alisonraeJean and Baby Clare and squarenailsPei Fen

Yeah..valskaJoan popped yesterday so we dropped by the hospital today to have a peek at li' Clare and of course to see how the woman is faring..The mother looked so calm and cool..you wouldn't have known that she had just been through a long labour (and lotsa pain). And the li' one is soooo sweet..with a heart-shaped face and a full head of black hair! The babe was sleeping so peacefully when we were there and didn't even wake up even though we were making such a din..

Terence walked into the ward as we were all chatting away at the top of our voices..and quipped "Okay, gossiping already. I can see that Joan has recovered!"

this woman has lost sooooo much weight!

gonna be her turn to pop soon =)

Clare sleeping so sweetly :)

And just in case you are wondering as well..the answer is no! Not thinking of number 2. Everyone was asking me this at the hospital and I admitted that I wasn't very keen. But i told them that hubby seemed to be more insistent nowadays .. And Joan's mom (or is it mom-in-law?) upon hearing this advised "If your husband wants another child, you should give it to him! Trust me.." she said, "I know!". Pressure siah~~

I can't exactly say why I'm reluctant to have no.2...Aidan was such an angel when he was a baby..Most of you would know how easy it was to care for him. He ate well, slept soundly and didn't give me a hard time at all. I truly enjoyed the times I had with him when he was a newborne. And he's still such an adorable and lovable child . I love babies..but I'm just not keen to have another one. Hubby's main reason is because of the boy. "He will be lonely!", he said. I acknowledge that...but I just don't want to have a kid just so that he will have a companion. Am I selfish this way?

I wrote a blog entry yesterday night..and later deleted it because I thought I was too whiny. It was about the possibility of the postponement of the holiday in Japan due to hubby's work commitment. He confirmed today that it has to be changed to later date..but we're having a bit of trouble rescheduling and the travel agency also mentioned that we won't be getting the Natas' discounted rate.

Kinda disappointed 'coz I was so looking forward to the holiday..Oh well, can't be helped! Hubby is feeling kinda guilty about it already.. Shouldn't let it affect my mood..


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Oct. 19th, 2006 04:18 pm (UTC)
eh, 4 women lah! :P
no shots of mummy and daddy?

Clare really looks so peaceful sleeping like that...
Oct. 19th, 2006 04:19 pm (UTC)
hahah me damn blur leh..why i think 3 chabors only!!
yeah, Clare just slept through all the noise we made...even Pei Fen was impressed (you know how loud she can be right *grin*)..
Oct. 19th, 2006 04:20 pm (UTC)
haha... Clare is a SOUND sleeper siah...
yeap, if she can sleep thru PF... lol.
Oct. 19th, 2006 04:21 pm (UTC)
oh..joan didn't wanna have her pic taken! the daddy came in when we were done with the picture taking already!
Oct. 19th, 2006 04:55 pm (UTC)
the bb so cute!
cute bb... ur son's so cute too.. aww.. he's ill? i'm ill too! haha.. stupid haze. hopw ur son gets well real soon(3
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Oct. 19th, 2006 04:58 pm (UTC)
Re: the bb so cute!
what are you doing up so late at night *grin*..shoo go study!!

Yeah, Aidan has the flu..i guess it's partially due to the haze too..but he should get well son. thanks!

by the way, have you seen this?
Oct. 19th, 2006 07:56 pm (UTC)
yeay for clare!!!!!!!!!!!!
can't wait for joan to post soon ^_^ thanks for the sneak peek :D :D :D
Oct. 20th, 2006 05:19 am (UTC)
she should be back soon..i think she's discharged today!
Oct. 19th, 2006 10:57 pm (UTC)
Ya I couldn't believe how calm she was too! Baby Clare was still sleeping when I got there about 3!
Oct. 20th, 2006 05:21 am (UTC)
yeah lor..we were shrieking like a banshee and she was so cool and collected! We prob just missed u..left at 230pm!
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Oct. 20th, 2006 05:22 am (UTC)
but my childbirth story not scary leh! should make u more relaxed instead hehe..
yah..ur 7am sms! tmi for so early in the morning!
Oct. 20th, 2006 03:15 am (UTC)
aiyo..you're not being selfish. being the mum, i'm sure you want the best for your kid. so if you want number two, you also hope that you can give him/her the best. so it's okay if you're not prepared for the second one..

spoke to your hubby with your concerns?

the baby looks so tiny and adorable..!
Oct. 20th, 2006 05:23 am (UTC)
yah..he knows. i think he just hoping i change my mind =P

i've forgotten how tiny and fragile a newborne is..even i had difficulties carrying clare!
Oct. 20th, 2006 06:31 am (UTC)
Have them when you're prepared.
Having said that, one can never be too prepared for such :)
Oct. 21st, 2006 01:57 am (UTC)
heh i wasnt even prepared for aidan..:P
Oct. 20th, 2006 09:48 am (UTC)
ehhh.. i think one should get a kid coz one wants a kid, not coz your present kid needs a companion. if he's lonely.. get him a barbie doll la!
Oct. 21st, 2006 01:57 am (UTC)
piangz not a barbie doll lah..get him GI Joe :P
Oct. 25th, 2006 02:03 am (UTC)
orh the makeup doll BRATZ
Oct. 22nd, 2006 01:06 am (UTC)
My hubs is the opposite of yours! He has been trying to justify to me why it's better to have one! LOL Sesame
Oct. 22nd, 2006 03:18 am (UTC)
eh I thought I'd read in one of the earlier entries that your preference is to just have one and you wanted to convince your hub? I remember it because I identified with how you were feeling then =)
Oct. 23rd, 2006 04:10 am (UTC)
Well you could get YC to get you something along Omotesando when you're in Tokyo to help him allay his guilt :P
Oct. 28th, 2006 03:03 am (UTC)
i had to google omotesando :P

but the stuff there v ex right?!
Oct. 28th, 2006 03:41 am (UTC)
Got Japan exclusives mah... And not that much more expensive (for the branded stuff that is)...
Oct. 25th, 2006 02:33 am (UTC)
Nope. You are not selfish. Have another if you have space in your heart to love another but don't simply "produce" a companion for your Aidan. Imagine telling the younger one, "We brought you to this world to accompany your bro!"
Oct. 28th, 2006 03:03 am (UTC)
i think if i 'accidentally' have a no.2 (like how i did with no.1 *grin*), i will still love the baby no matter what..but yeah, i am not for having another one just to let my boy have a companion.
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