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There is nothing more rewarding than being a mom, and seeing your child grow and develop. I love seeing pieces of myself in him and his open affection and love for me..his kisses, his hugs and inane blabberings (okay, that I can love to a certain level :P). The love I have for him is truly unconditional..and in truth, he has really taught me the real meaning of loving someone..:)

Being a mom has made me appreciate my own mother more..My mother is quite a character actually..very strong-willed, stubborn and critical. I've inherited some of her traits and that has led to quite a bit of friction during my younger days especially since I was a rather rebellious kid. I guess as a kid, I was oblivious to it all thinking that all she wanted to do was to make my life miserable. When I was in Sec school, most of my friends were allowed to go to those house functions and dates whereas our household had a strict curfew and boys then was a no-no (although that didn't stop me). In fact, I still managed to attend a fair share of functions by sneaking out of the house with the help of my siblings (yes, I was that naughty). But now that I'm a parent, I can now better understand why she saw the need to curtail my actions especially since I was 'wild' by nature. She is the reason why I have a uni cert actually. At the age of 20, was working full time in hotel as a waitress and having the time of my life! And she decided that my education was important and decided on my behalf to ship me off to Canada to further my studies..I remember being quite devasted then because I was enjoying myself so much and was so reluctant to part with my then-boyfriend. In retrospect, I was really so naive then!

I know mom has been really concerned about me especially since the breakup of my marriage..in fact, she took the news quite badly. She has told me that her only wish now is to see that all her children are all well taken care off and I think she's afraid that I may not be able to cope on my own, especially with a child. I have to constantly reassure her that I'm fine.. Lately too, she's been giving me and my sister her jewellery saying that she doesn't like to wear them much at her age and rather have someone who appreciates them wear it. Even though we were both reluctant to accept them, she kept insisting saying that it gives her great pleasure to do so (too bad I don't have any daughter that I can pass the jewellery & my collection of bags to).

Hope everyone made your mom happy today although it shouldn't be just on Mother's Day yah!

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May. 10th, 2009 12:37 pm (UTC)
Happy mothers day! :)
May. 10th, 2009 12:41 pm (UTC)
thanks :) i had a great day *burp*
May. 10th, 2009 12:57 pm (UTC)
i love the first photo of yours! how classic! :)

Aidan is such a lovely boy. if i were in your shoes, I'd also be proud of him.
I'm sure he's proud of you too. You'll be able to enjoy the fruit of your labour in due time.

happy mother's day!
May. 10th, 2009 01:09 pm (UTC)
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Thanks Christine :) I am proud of my boy..he's really a lovely boy!
May. 10th, 2009 01:09 pm (UTC)
happy mother's day to you. I just wanna say the 1st pic is so beautiful.
May. 10th, 2009 01:26 pm (UTC)
yeah..I love the first pic too! thanks :)))
May. 10th, 2009 01:13 pm (UTC)
Very nice photos!

Happy Mother's day!
May. 10th, 2009 01:27 pm (UTC)
thanks..they r beautifully taken :) glad i had them taken!
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May. 10th, 2009 01:44 pm (UTC)
hang in there..well, i guess all of us do know that being a mommy is definitely not easy, esp if one is a sahm... it is 'on the job training' most of the time..i too had my fair share of struggling when aidan was a mere babe..i can still remember his incessant crying especially when he was teething, my problems breastfeeding, my constant self blaming when anything goes wrong (eg. when he fell down the bed or ate soap :P)..actually, you'll encounter 'problems' along the way when he grows up but u'll learn to cope too. and if you do feel depressed as a result, do try to have an outlet and not keep it to yourself k. things should get better *hugs*

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May. 10th, 2009 02:26 pm (UTC)
hehe by then, the bags all moldy liao and the jewelery too old fashioned :P
May. 10th, 2009 02:20 pm (UTC)
Great pics!
Happy mother's day!!
May. 10th, 2009 02:23 pm (UTC)
Happy Mother's Day to u too!
oh yeah, i read that Ethan's teeth just dropped. Aidan's teeth is still intact!!!!! Almost all the kids his age i know have dropped at least one tooth!
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May. 10th, 2009 02:53 pm (UTC)
happy mommies days...your mom looks damn young la...come come you dont want to wear her jewellery, i wear for you...hur
May. 10th, 2009 03:27 pm (UTC)
yah..for a 71 year old woman, she definitely doesn't look her age :)
i love the jewelery she gave me lah..they were those 'vintage' sort with unusual designs! but it is mainly 'coz she can still wear them yet she doesn't want to anymore.

erm, u wear jewelery meh ? :P
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May. 10th, 2009 03:02 pm (UTC)
happy mothers' day :)
May. 10th, 2009 03:04 pm (UTC)
hahaha look at the way you squat by the swimming pool. sibei glam!

the photos are really well-taken! love the colour.
May. 10th, 2009 03:33 pm (UTC)
that's an ahlian squat hor..i like that my wallet and book had nicely covered up my flabby areas (esp since i was squatting!!) hehe..

yeah..i thought karen did a great job with the pics..and she does it on a part-time basis too since she has a day job :)
May. 10th, 2009 03:05 pm (UTC)
Happy Mom's Day!

Your photos look like a MCYS photoshoot lor (in a good way)! :P
May. 10th, 2009 03:33 pm (UTC)
orh..i pass on the compliment to the photog :)
but mcys shoot sure must have tapor inside too :P
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May. 10th, 2009 03:09 pm (UTC)
happy mother's day!
May. 10th, 2009 03:56 pm (UTC)
Happy Mothers Day to us!
May. 10th, 2009 04:05 pm (UTC)
yeahh!! let everyday be a mother's day yah :)) hehe
May. 10th, 2009 04:15 pm (UTC)
Happy Mother's day to you too... how long we've come ah...

Love the pics... feel like shipping my girsl to HK just to take the photos... hehe..
May. 10th, 2009 04:24 pm (UTC)
Yes we have..i was looking at some old pics recently and found so many of those we'd taken when our kids was not even 1 year old yet..

Actually, karen does do overseas assignment.she goes to Australia almost every month for photoshoot assignments. i think for singapore, if she can fix up 3 assignments within 4 days, the airticket cost is waived. and her charges are really really reasonable but that's not the point. More of that i love her pics :) I'm eagerly waiting for the CDrom to arrive..

Edited at 2009-05-10 04:25 pm (UTC)
May. 10th, 2009 04:20 pm (UTC)
Hope you had a lovely day with Aidan :)
Pictures are nicely taken :)
May. 10th, 2009 04:27 pm (UTC)
i did..we spent the whole day eating and playing..haha! stuff he loves to do best!! :)
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